in houston alone im so hurt any advice?
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im in houston alone ive been living here with my girlfriend of over a year we moved here from florida we no no one she told me she fell out of love with me and wated to go home this was last night so i kissed her goodbye and asked her if this is what she reall ywants she said yes i washed my hands of her 2 hours went by she called last night said hotels was to much $ and she asked if she could stay here for the night i agreed you know i could of told her no you said you dont love me no more your not my problem but i dident i to9ld her she could stay she did (we have 2 dogs 2 akitas there my life i told her she could have one but like i said i woke up both of my dogs are gone and im iin this lonely house every corner reminds me of her she took advantage of my good nature! im so hurt and lost any advice!
Elsie
im in houston alone ive been living here with my girlfriend of over a year we moved here from florida we no no one she told me she fell out of love with me and wated to go home this was last night so i kissed her goodbye and asked her if this is what she reall ywants she said yes i washed my hands of her 2 hours went by she called last night said hotels was to much $ and she asked if she could stay here for the night i agreed you know i could of told her no you said you dont love me no more your not my problem but i dident i to9ld her she could stay she did (we have 2 dogs 2 akitas there my life i told her she could have one but like i said i woke up both of my dogs are gone and im iin this lonely house every corner reminds me of her she took advantage of my good nature! im so hurt and lost any advice!
Elsie
March 21st, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Elaine
is there a reason why she fell out of love with you? sometimes things change without warning, im sorry that happened to u sweetie! its going to take sum time to get over her (if thats what ur trying to do) but things will get better in due time, until then u keep ur head up dont let it fall down, dont let her know that your hurting either, sometimes women have that control over men where they like to c you down and hurt. i understand where your coming from, but i was in her shoes. i fell out of love with my gf (lesbian) and now i moved in with her, i love her but its taking time for me to be in love with her, so try getting a hobby, moving maybe? if u have the finances..
March 24th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Stephen
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Use these, there called periods.
March 25th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Russell
im incredbly sorry this happened to you…just call her and tell her how you feel
March 27th, 2009 at 7:13 am
Danielle
if life is getting you down. try to do something a little different. change some little things so it’s not the same. try to do something that will make you smile.. or make you think of something else..
go to a zoo, go to a museum, go to a library. go walk in the park. If you think of something that makes you sad .. smile and think of somethign else.. something that makes you smile… try to choose to be happy.
dont dwell on the sad stuff.
if you go to the library get some books on relationships., then you can read about stuff that might help you succeed in a future relationship.. and understand how your last one went bad… this way you can learn from your mistake and hopefully have a better chance in the next relationship.
tomorrow is another day.. time will pass and the wounds will heal.
try to meet some friends.. surround yourself with friends.. dont look for love. Let love find you in one of those friends you surround yourself with.. mabye someday one of these friends will turn out to be something more than a friend.
hang in there, and have a smile on me
good luck
March 28th, 2009 at 1:57 am
Kathryn
My Jaw just dropped. I can NOT believe this. I am so sorry. She obviously doesn’t deserve you. I think it would be best if you moved out of that house, and either moved to a new place in Texas, somewhere else in the country, or move back to Florida with your family & just start over. This must have been on her mind for awhile, Did she hint any clues? Like uninterested in sexual pleasures (or whatever), or not very talkative? There is something very wrong with this picture.
My advice is to forget about her and move on, It will take awhile, because it was a huge shock to you, but it’s the only way. You need to get out of that house, get an apartment or move back home. Just focus on your Job or school or whatever you are doing, and wait awhile, when it’s time to date again you will just know it.
I’m so sorry & Good Luck.
March 28th, 2009 at 5:55 am
Kenneth
you should move on and not fall for her tricks ever again sorry you got hurt in the process of it all but like you see be more careful on your friendships.
March 31st, 2009 at 1:16 am
Elsie
i tell you what… her being gone is one thing. i’d just say good riddance to bad rubbish, but she took your dog?! I’d hunt her down!
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Raul
I live in Houston too. To take your mind off of her try going to a Astros game once the season starts. They are a good place to pick up girls. Or there is bound to be at least one girl at your place of work that is single. All you have to do is make the first move. Wallowing in your despair won’t bring your ex girlfriend back.